Monday, February 8, 2016

SE Asia Update 1: Bangkok

Greetings from Bangkok, friends! Today is our third day here (it's Tuesday morning here), and we've had wonderful adventures each day.

A view from the house church on the 10th floor of a building in Bangkok.

Brian giving his testimony at house church. The women left of him translated.

There were many Chinese New Year celebrations at the Night Market. Drums, gongs, dancers, and dragons!

Day one we arrived, got settled, and then attended Bethlehem's Global Partners' house church. There were about 5 Thai and 9 foreigners. Even amidst the jet lag, it was a sweet time of worshipping together in Thai and English. After the house church we went to a night market near the guest house we are staying at that is known for bars (brothels). Every night hundreds of vendors set up their shops on the street (that is empty during the day) and sell their goods while the bars behind them on either side of the street are in full swing. It was surreal walking past these bars and seeing young girls inside dancing. I've seen similar scenes in documentaries about sex trafficking, but it was another thing to actually see it. There were men outside the bars with price lists that they shove in your face asking if you want to see the shows (or do more). Yesterday was Chinese New year, so the night that we went to the market there were also a lot of parades and celebrations going on. Everything was very busy and overwhelming, but also very interesting to see.

There were many shanties along the river, and many children and families waved as we passed by.

This woman pulled up with a boat of goodies to sell to us.

We also saw many temples and statues along the way.











We had coloring books and bracelet making time.

Yesterday we got to visit Rahab Ministries, which is a Thai-run organization that ministers to girls who work in the bars. They want to see these women leave a life of prostitution and come to know Jesus as Savior and get their income in healthy ways. They do this through outreach, English classes, and career-skills classes. We spent the morning learning about them and they served us a delicious authentic lunch. Then we set out to explore Bangkok for a few hours before we needed to be back to help host a party for the prostitutes they are working with. So we took the train to the river and did a boat tour which was incredible! Seeing the shanties right next to the elaborate temples was shocking, and we all felt like we got a good glimpse of the city during the tour. However, the boat driver dropped us off at a different dock than we got on at, which left us very lost and confused. We were already running late for our party, so all four of us climbed on a tuk tuk (a small open-air vehicle) and prayed for our lives as our driver weaved in and out of the rush-hour traffic. It was quite the adventure! We got to the party in time (barely!) and Kristin (the other female on the trip) and I had a wonderful couple hours with 17 women that work in the bars playing games, doing crafts, and sharing a testimony. Please pray that this party had an impact on the women and that they would come to Jesus! After the party our team went to McDonalds for icecream and debriefed our day. We are blessed to have such an amazing team!

This morning we're getting ready to go teach English with our Global Partners. So far our stomachs have held up, however I woke up with a sore throat and Brian's cold is hanging on so you can pray for our health that way. Pray that we will be a blessing to the Global Partners and that our team will be the sweet aroma of Christ. We love you all and appreciate your prayers! I'll hopefully be able to post some pictures on the blog, but otherwise you can go to my instagram to see some and of course my snapchat (blockhl) has lots of fun videos!



Monday, February 1, 2016

Draw Near to the Throne

Let us then with confidence draw near to the throne of grace, that we may receive mercy and find grace to help in time of need. —Hebrews 4:16

Some of you have asked how you can specifically pray for us as we prepare and while we are on our trip, so I thought I'd share some requests that have come to mind here. For the next few days (we leave on Friday), you could pray that Brian's cold will go away and that I will stay healthy, that we will get everything done at work and home that we need to before we leave, and that packing and other prep will go smoothly. Also, praise the Lord, we have enough funding for the trip! He is so good in how He provides!

We are SO grateful for your prayers and know how important it will be throughout the whole trip... so please bookmark this page and come back often until February 20!



Travel Mercies
Pray ...
  • that all our flights will be on time 
  • that we will be in the right spots when we need to be
  • for safe and reliable drivers
  • that all our luggage would make it to each location with us 
Health & Safety
Pray ...
  • that we will stay healthy and won't get sick from food or water
  • for the safety of all our belongings
  • for the safety of our passports and money
  • that jetlag symptoms will be minor and won't affect our work 
  • for safety while we are traveling alone at the end of the trip
Spiritual
Pray ...
  • for God's protection over our hearts and minds
  • that God will break our hearts for what breaks His
  • that we will be filled with the Spirit and follow His promptings
  • for boldness to share Jesus' name
  • that we will see others how God sees them
  • for team unity
  • for special protection from temptations that could arise from interacting with sex trafficking
  • for open doors and soft hearts
Other
Pray ...
  • that we will serve and love our hosts well
  • for wisdom as we're discerning future partnerships and short-term trip possibilities
  • that we will be culturally sensitive

Wednesday, January 27, 2016

5 Killer U.S. Travel Destinations

I have two strong gut reactions when I think of all the places I want to travel—1. Excitement! I can't wait to see the world! and 2. Sadness. I know I'll never make it to all of them. (Being a realist definitely has its ups and downs.) But whether it be time, or money, or most likely both, the reality is there just isn't enough to do everything. So I narrowed it down to 5 places that I want to travel in the U.S., hopefully in the next 5–10 years. Baby steps, yes?

After narrowing it down to the 5 places I want to visit the very most, I noticed that there's a nice combo of city and nature, with a little bit of child-like fun thrown in—the perfect mix, in my book! So here it is... my list of 5 U.S. destinations I'd love (insert heart eyes emoji here) to visit.

1. Seattle, WA

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I've been told by multiple people on multiple different occasions that Seattle is my city. Apparently I'd love all the sights and sounds. Apparently the quirk is just right and the food happens to abound in the seafood-variety and it just screams me. So how can I not want to go, right?? This one is a must, and I have plenty of pins on my "explore" board to prove it. Let's go!

2. New York City


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I've been to NYC a few times, but once was when I was a kid and couldn't fully appreciate everything, and the other two times were on mission trips where we went and helped out with summer VBS-type programs and did homeless outreach. So not super tourist-y. But holy moly do I love everything about this city! I love the lights and the buildings and the people and the noise. I love the food and the shopping and the transportation. Now don't get me wrong, I would go crazy living there, but to visit for a week? Count me in! 

3. Redwood Forests, California


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I've also been to the Redwood Forests, but also when I was a young child and just have a foggy dream-like memory of it. I remember being amazed by the huge trees, and ever since whenever I see photos I want to go back. Plus, it's California... sooooo, can you really go wrong? I think this would make a perfect pairing with the Seattle trip, but only if there was sufficient time for both.

4. Yellowstone National Park, Wyoming


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In college I took a class called "Geology of Our National Parks." At the time, it was my sneaky way of trying to take the least-science-y science classes, but it actually turned out to be a pretty sweet class. After a semester of getting a virtual tour of many of our National Parks and all the wonders they hold, I can't help but want to see them! And Yellowstone is just one of the classics. 

5. Universal Studios, Orlando, FL


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I've never been to Disney World or Land or any other iconic child-hood place, so when the Wizarding World of Harry Potter opened, I knew that I had to go. I love Harry Potter, and I love theme parks. Win-win. Universal Studios kind of seems like the more adult version of Disney World, which is A-okay with me. This could be a fun one to do with kids someday, but it might also be a fun place for Loverboy and I to explore by ourselves. Or with friends! Any takers? 


What's on your U.S. travel list? Stay tuned for an international list!

Monday, January 25, 2016

Coffee Date

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If we were having coffee, I would share my excitement over our upcoming trip. I can't believe that in less than 2 weeks we'll be Thailand! Let the packing commence! 

If we were having coffee, I would let you know that I've kind of been getting into cooking lately since Loverboy gets home later now with his new job. Basically I get home and am bored and hungry, so what better thing to do than cook a tasty meal? Plus it's turning into a nice way to just relax and have some alone time after work.

If we were having coffee, I'd want to know what your favorite quick, easy recipes are. Because even though I've been getting into cooking more, I still thoroughly enjoy a recipe with just a few steps and/or ingredients.

If we were having coffee, I'd let you in on the little secret that you can borrow digital books from the library to read on your computer, tablet, or phone! This is a total game-changer for our trip, as instead of toting 5 books around Asia, I'll just have our tablet packed with books. Score!

If we were having coffee, I would tell you about how BASE is doing and that I'm encouraged by the interest and participation that we have. I would tell you about how this past weekend 10 of us sat around a table at a cafe and shared ideas on how we can best help fight trafficking and raise awareness and it was just pretty sweet. 

If we were having coffee, I would ask you about the ways that you are experiencing God. I would ask how you are seeking Him and what you do when seeking Him feels hard.

Tuesday, January 19, 2016

Packing for International Travel



Ever since I started packing for myself, packing and I have had a love-hate relationship. Especially packing for trips that aren't just to grandma's house where if you forget something it's no biggie. There was the mission trip to NYC my freshman year of high school where I painfully underpacked and had to wear the same sweaty tshirt three days in a row. Then there was the same trip my senior year of high school, where after vowing to never underpack again, I was towing around a giant suitcase and probably only wore half of what I packed. I hate packing because there's always the last minute panic of wondering if you remembered your charger or your toothbrush. But I also love packing because of the organization and the planning it involves. My inner planning nerd always tends to come out and I see it as a challenge to pack well.

So now you know way more than you ever needed to about my love-hate relationship with packing, and as our trip to SE Asia approaches (less than three weeks!), it's definitely been something that's on my mind.

We've gone back and forth on if we should do two small carry-ons, or one bigger checked luggage, or one checked and one carry-on, the possibilities are endless! (well, not really, but there are a few to consider). On top of that is the fact that we'll be in lots of different atmospheres and situations—meeting with different organizations and ministries, time in rural Cambodia, and then a few days at the end that we're tacking on at a resort in Thailand. That's a pretty broad spectrum to pack for!

I've been scouring the interwebs for packing wisdom and have found this article on packing in just a carry-on suitcase that seems like it will be helpful, as well as this one about packing your carry-on bag.

Overall, I'm feeling a little overwhelmed at the task. Not like fall apart in a puddle of tears overwhelmed, more like a "Help! Share your wisdom with me!" overwhelmed. So I would LOVE any tips, tricks, and advice that you world travelers have! Carry-on vs. checked, what not to bring and what I won't be able to live without, any articles you have found helpful... please share your knowledge!


Wednesday, January 13, 2016

Creating a New Rhythm for Our Evenings



We're about two weeks into this whole 2016 thing, and so far it's going pretty well, besides the raging cold that I've had ALL YEAR LONG! (Doesn't it just sound so much more dramatic that way??) Anyway... one of my big goals for this year is to read more. I even shared 16 books that I want to read this year (and I've found more since then... help me!).

So when Loverboy and I sat down on January 2 to do our annual Looking Back & Looking Ahead New Year's Date (yes, it's official because it's capitalized), we talked about ways that we can actually make this whole reading thing happen. Because it did not happen last year, and legend has it that if you keep doing the same old things then you better expect the same old results. So something had to change.

We decided that although we love our TV shows, that they were kind of dominating our evenings, and when given the choice between vegging in front of the TV or actually turning on our brains and reading something... guess which one we most often chose?

Our solution? One hour of technology-free wind-down time before bed. So that means that usually sometime around 9pm we're heading upstairs to read for a bit before bed, which is so relaxing! And it also means that we usually get more talk-time in since we're not staring at a screen right up until we climb the stairs to fall into bed.

We've decided this will be a weeknight only thing, so we can still totally binge late into the night on a Friday night if we want to (phew!). So far we are loving having the extra time to relax before bed, take a break from technology, and start chipping away at my over-zealous 2016 reading list (already half way through For The Love!).

One practical change we made for this new rhythm to really take hold was getting a new headboard. Our old headboard was a cute little brass one that I hunted down on Craigslist that was totally adorable but so not practical for sitting and reading in bed. You had to stuff 5 pillows behind you to have any chance at being comfortable and not sliding through the bars. And reading in bed is probably my most favorite place to read, so this was an important part of the change.

So what 2016 goals do you have that you could work into your day by creating a new rhythm? What practical step can you take (even if it means biting the bullet and spending a little bit of dough) that could help you reach your goal? Why not keep riding the January New Year momentum and make a change today?

Monday, January 11, 2016

Guest Post // On Being a Refugee: The Sojourner's Hope

Editor's Note: Kayla and I were "random" roommates in college (good one, God!) and have been close friends ever since. We kind of thought we'd never see each other after I graduated and she had two years left, but then I decided to stick around and work with The Navigators and after two years we both moved to Minneapolis where we roomed together again, got married, and now live 15 min away from each other. Score! Kayla moved to Minneapolis to work with refugees and has been doing so for the last year and a half as an employment counselor at two different non-profits that serve refugees and immigrants. She gets exceedingly excited about maps and nutrition, enjoys red wine and chocolate, and is always looking for people to cook for. She is a true gem and is one of the most compassionate people I know. You will be blessed. —HD


On Being a Refugee: The Sojourners Hope

There are countless stories, and a few told by people who I’ve met in the last year and a half.
Akberet* hasn’t seen her husband in eight years because he was imprisoned for being a Christian. Mohamed is desperate for a way to support his family living in poverty back home. Rashiab received the opportunity to move to the US from a country plagued by Ebola and had to leave his young family behind in order to support them. Hawo came to Minneapolis after 7 years in a refugee camp with her young daughter, few belongings, and no knowledge of the English language. A family came to Minnesota in the middle of winter with minimal possessions, dressed in t-shirts and sandals.

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All of these individuals have had pain and hardship in their arduous journey to the US. And now, they each have challenges as they face a new culture and language in a foreign land. Being around people with these stories every day has served as a reminder that as believers in Christ, we are truly sojourners and outsiders as well. As Peter wrote in his letter to believers, “Dear friends, I urge you, as foreigners and exiles, to abstain from sinful desires, which wage war against your soul.” (1 Peter 2:11). Clearly a refugee is an exile from their homeland, but why would Peter call the believer an “exile”? For the same reason Jesus says that His people are “not of this world” (John 17:16).

Like the refugee, I am a foreigner. I am not home. Like the refugee, I am a sojourner on a journey. Like the refugee my journey can leave me weak and thirsty at times. Like the refugee, I do not belong to this culture that I am living in. “For our citizenship is in heaven, from which also we eagerly wait for a Savior, the Lord Jesus Christ” (Philippians 3:20).  Just as the refugee faces a new language, new cultural rules, new weather, I face challenges as I learn more and more what it is to be a citizen of heaven in a sin-filled world

In the midst of the sobering stories aforementioned, there are also stories of great hope. In the two years she has been in the US, Akberet has learned English, earned her certification to work as a nursing assistant and took college readiness classes to study nursing. Rashiab published a novel. Hawo is attending school for the first time in her life to study English. A family was reunited with relatives whom they haven’t seen in years.

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For the refugee, there is great hope found in resettling to a new country with seemingly boundless opportunity. For the Christian, there is also a hope, but it is much greater and much more secure. Our hope is not found in working towards a degree or supporting a family or arriving in a new country. Our hope is in the redemption that Jesus Christ brings in forgiveness of our sin. This hope will be fully realized the day that we stand before the great Judge, faultless because of what Jesus did. For “he has caused us to be born again to a living hope through the resurrection of Jesus Christ from the dead…” (1 Peter 1:3).  Like the refugee, our desire is for a better country. “But as it is, they desire a better country, that is, a heavenly one. Therefore God is not ashamed to be called their God; for He has prepared a city for them.” (Hebrews 11:16).  When we arrive in that place, that city prepared for us, we will be gloriously welcomed and reunited with our King forever.

Let us pray that our friends and neighbors who have been forced to flee their homeland will come to share in this hope. How great it would be to tell them "… you are no longer strangers and aliens, but you are fellow citizens with the saints, and members of the household of God…” (Ephesians 2:19).

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*Names have been changed to protect privacy.

If you want to help the refugee crisis here are some organizations I recommend:
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